Quora Post: “What is the single most effective piece of financial advice you’ve ever received?”

I’m over on Quora today answering this question:

“I laid awake during the night in a cold sweat staring at the dark ceiling.  I calculated the  weeks before we went bankrupt in a business I owned.  Our children were very young  and I trembled wondering how I would take care of them.

Years later I remember my father’s advice often. . . .”

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What Keeps Us From Seeing the Miraculous?

When I pastored the church, after the morning service, we invited people who needed prayer to go to the chapel.  There a prayer team met with them and later I’d join them.

Sometimes we were asked to pray for seemingly impossible challenges.  Situations honestly with little hope.

So we prayed, yet frankly at times I felt unnerved.  Praying for what seemed impossible sounds exciting yet is terrifying.

I’d think sometimes, “But what if it doesn’t work?  What if God doesn’t answer?  What if we fail?  God will look like a failure.  I’ll look like a fool.”

Yet somehow we boldly prayed anyway most of the time.

Perhaps you’ve felt the same way occasionally.  You want to pray boldly but you’re just not sure.

So we pray a “hedge your bets” kind of prayer.  “Well God I’d really like for you to do this.  But I understand if you don’t want to.”

Then we end with the very spiritually sounding phrase, “Not my will but yours be done.”

But the problem is we rarely see the miracle working power of God.

On the other hand that doesn’t mean we treat God as some kind of genie in a bottle.  Pray three times and he does what you command.  God has a way of showing us that system doesn’t work so well.

So what do we do?

It comes down to figuring out what God truly promises then praying boldly with faith for what we know he says he will do.

We’ll look in detail at how to do that in the next post.

I’ve seen God answer miraculously some of those feeble prayers I’ve prayed.  Heck I still do.

His power is real.  We just need to learn how to pray to see it unleashed.

When the Impossible Gives Way to the Possible

We all face times when a challenge seems impossible don’t we?  No matter what we do it’s simply not enough?  And no matter the support, we’re left feeling alone.

In this story, we’ve been looking at, Peter steps out of the boat and walks on the water.

So often pastors focus on Peter’s subsequent failure.

Yet, Peter was the one who experienced the miracle wasn’t he?  Though he stumbled he experienced the miracle of the impossible giving way to the possible.

Another part of the story I find interesting is the storm didn’t immediately subside.

Frankly, sometimes our storms don’t either.  Often this is the hardest part.

Sometimes we find our way out of the storm by heading in a new direction.  God solves the problem not the way we expect or even ask but in a completely different way.

The disciples expected Jesus to instantaneously calm the storm as he had before.  Yet this time Jesus had a different miracle in mind.

That night Jesus planned two miracles.

If the disciples had gotten their wish they’d have missed one of them which literally changed everyone that night.  A miracle that gave them confidence for the challenges ahead.  An answer far better than what they asked.

So when we look for what God has promised and then pray with boldness for that, God can unleash his miracle working power.  But he does it in his way.  Then the impossible gives way to the possible.

 

(Matthew 14: 28-29)

How to See the Impossible Made Possible

We’ve all faced an impossible challenge haven’t we?  No matter what we try it’s not enough and it leaves us scared and frustrated.

So what do we do?

A story of the disciples and Jesus gives a clue.

The disciples are sailing across the Sea of Galilee at night.  Suddenly they’re caught in a ferocious storm.  The wind shreds their sails.  Waves swamp the boat.  Each one remembers friends they’ve lost in these storms.

Suddenly Jesus appears walking on the water to them and says, “Don’t be afraid.”  A bit of an understatement don’t you think?

Peter cries out, “Lord is it you?”

Probably the most important question we can ask.  “Lord are you there?  Do you hear me?  Are you with me?”  We all wonder at times.  So go ahead and ask.  It’s ok.

Second, he says, “Lord tell me to come to you.”

Peter didn’t say, “Lord, I’m climbing out of the boat so hold me up.”  Or “Jesus if you want to calm the storm you can.”

No Peter asks for a promise.  The same way we need to look for what God has promised us in his word.

Then Jesus says, “Come.”

So Peter, out of faith in Jesus’ offer, climbs out of the boat and starts walking to him on the water.  No second guessing.  No hesitation.

Once he had the promise he acted on it.

I wonder how many impossibilities we face would crumble if we did the same?

 

(Matthew 14: 28-29)

When You’re Trapped in the Impossible

We’ve all been trapped in the impossible haven’t we?  Blindsided by a problem beyond our capabilities to solve?

A marriage that implodes and your spouse just won’t reconcile.

A health crisis the doctors can’t figure out how to cure.

Your career or business evaporates and you simply can’t replace it.

You feel stuck, frustrated, scared and maybe more than a little angry at the situation and God.

Maybe you’re there right now.

Often we respond by finally giving in.  “It’s not my fault.  There’s nothing I can do.  I can’t solve this.  It’s impossible.”

Our friends and family empathize.  We ask for prayer on Facebook.  We’re put on the church prayer list.

And you know, those feelings may be honest and the support appreciated.  But it still doesn’t solve the challenge does it?

Perhaps if you’re part of a charismatic church then you’re told, “Just have more faith.  Pray boldly.  Tell God exactly what you want and when you want it.”

Yet, sometimes that doesn’t work either does it?

Then we’re left feeling not only frustrated but isolated.  It seems like I’m the only one God doesn’t answer those kinds of prayers for.

I’ve lived through both experiences.  Heck, I occasionally still do.

But what if I said there’s a third way that threads between those two approaches?  A way that leads to seeing God work the impossible?

Take hope.  A path leads out of the darkness.

We’ll look further at this next time.

Quora Post: What Life Lessons are Counter-intuitive or Go Against Common Sense or Wisdom?

I’m over at Quora today answering this question:

“If health, happiness, love, success and wealth came by following our cultural common sense and intuition we’d all live extraordinary lives wouldn’t we?  Yet, take a look around. . . .”

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Quora Post: “How Do You Keep Your Faith in Situations in Which God Doesn’t Help You?”

I’m over at Quora today.  Please join me as I answer that question:

“I’ve struggled with this too.  I’ve prayed specifically for something I really wanted yet God didn’t answer my prayer the way I asked.

Yet, frankly looking back now I’m often glad he didn’t answer some of those prayers. . . .”

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Quora Post: “What is the Most Effective Yet Efficient Way to Get Rich?”

Here’s an answer I wrote on Quora:

I’ve a friend who received a substantial inheritance.  He later divorced his wife destroying his family.

I’ve other friends who spent their lives striving to grow rich and destroyed their health. . . .”

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“Quora” Post: What is the Best Thing Money Can Buy?

Another post on Quora to an interesting question.

I answered:

“There is no best thing money can buy.

Some writers listed pets with lots of cute photos.  Yet, have you ever had a puppy pee on your new carpet and flipped out?

Others listed travel. . . .”

 

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When the Impossible Becomes Possible

As we talked about last time, we all at times face the impossible don’t we? And no matter what we do it just isn’t enough.

Maybe a marriage implodes. Or health crumbles. Or a new enterprise collapses.

Suddenly we’re struggling trying to figure out what to do. Feeling scared and alone because nothing is working like it should.

As we looked at last time, Jesus’ disciples faced the impossible. 20,000 hungry people that Jesus just told them to feed. Yet, they didn’t have enough food even for themselves.

Suddenly they had to act on their minuscule faith. That seemed like an impossibility in itself.

Yet, I find encouragement for my own impossibilities in this story.

Amazingly, we see miracles happening inside of miracles.

First, of course, is the main miracle. 20,000 people were fed with a small supper that should have fed two. The food kept multiplying. No matter how much one person took when they passed on the basket there was more food.

Then the baskets multiplied. They started with one and ended up with twelve. Maybe others shared their food also. Maybe the disciples had more baskets. Maybe the baskets themselves multiplied. I don’t know when that happened because we aren’t told.

Third, the people were changed. They shared. No hoarding. No fighting. As long as the baskets kept moving the miracle expanded.

Fourth, the disciples were changed. They’d seen the impossible happen and they would never be the same again.

They gained an important perspective in thinking beyond their own ability to fix the impossible. Suddenly God did something completely outside of their experience and understanding.

And it all started simply because the disciples took their impossibility and gave it to the one who makes all things possible.

What would happen if we did the same?

 

*Matthew 14: 19-21