When You Just Feel Like Giving Up

Number 41 in the series “God Rocks: 101 Amazing Everyday Gifts!” Stories and promises of Jesus that show us the awesome blessings we can experience each day. I hope it encourages you!

 

A few days ago I was talking on the phone with a friend who’s been through more than her share. Several hip surgeries, two replacements, cancer and recently a knee replacement. Yet, through it all she can laugh and see the bright side.

I said, “So how’s your knee?”

She replied, “Actually I’m walking well. But I was in the kitchen a couple of days ago and didn’t realize my dog was behind me. I fell over him and the doctor thinks I’ve fractured a vertebrae. I just can’t seem to catch a break.”

First time I’d ever heard her down.

 

 

Photo Credit: Reza Vaziri

Photo Credit: Reza Vaziri

 

I imagine we can all relate. We’ve had days when we’re worn out then one more thing hits us. And we think, “Ugh, not something else.”

So maybe we go to church and that Sunday hear, “God is just testing your faith.”

 

I’ve wanted to scream, “Enough already! I’m a spiritual wimp, ok?”

 

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Three Reactions to a Miracle

Number 40 in the series “God Rocks: 101 Amazing Everyday Gifts!” Stories and promises of Jesus that show us the awesome blessings we can experience each day. I hope it encourages you!

 

I was having lunch with a friend who’s an atheist. We sat in the restaurant patio on a warm fall afternoon discussing belief in God.

Sweeping his arm he said, “I look around at all of this nature and the cosmos and I don’t see God anywhere.”

I responded, “I look around at all of this and I see God everywhere.”

 

Photo Credit: Hartwig HKD

Photo Credit: Hartwig HKD

 

A few years ago I went through a serious medical issue that was misdiagnosed by my doctor. I deteriorated for months with no cure in sight. Then a couple of “coincidences” led me to discover the core issue and a natural cure for it.

When I shared my good news with friends several responded, “Wow, what luck!”

Yet, I’ve responded often, “No, what a miracle.”

We attended a church for a while that taught, “Miracles are not applicable for today.”

 

And you know what? They proved their theory correct. They never saw miracles.

 

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Some Keys to Seeing a Miracle

Number 39 in the series “God Rocks: 101 Amazing Everyday Gifts!” Stories and promises of Jesus that show us the awesome blessings we can experience each day. I hope it encourages you!

 

Let’s be honest. There are times we all need a miracle.

I mean some challenges just seem impossible. And we’d really like God’s intervention even if we’re not sure we believe in it.

 

Photo Credit: Meena Kadri

Photo Credit: Meena Kadri

 

Frankly, I’ve prayed for people and seen miracles. Hey, I’ve seen miracles in my own life.

But I’ve also prayed and nothing miraculous happened. Or at least I never saw it.

So I’ve often wondered, “What’s the difference?  Why sometimes a miracle and sometimes seemingly zilch?”

In addition I’ve seen some super saints prayed for and nothing.

And I’ve seen some who would at best be considered marginally spiritual and boom something amazing happen.

Yet, what concerns me also is what comes out of that.

Sometimes people give up. They think, “It’s all bogus or I just don’t have enough faith.”

Or the other side, “Hey, I prayed and God answered exactly like I asked. Wow, this is so cool.” And it is right up until God doesn’t pop out of the bottle next time like they expect.

 

So it’s left me wondering, “What are the keys to seeing a miracle?”

 

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The Trouble with Miracles–Part 2

Number 37 in the series “God Rocks: 101 Amazing Everyday Gifts!” Stories and promises of Jesus that show us the awesome blessings we can experience each day. I hope it encourages you!

This post builds on the previous one so if you haven’t read it I encourage you to do that now.

 

I’ve seen miracles. Yep, full up unexplainable miracles.

I’ve prayed for people with incurable diseases and on a few occasions seen them healed.

Now that’s really cool and I could probably become famous except that I’ve also prayed for others and they eventually died.

 

Photo Credit: Angela Marie Henriette

Photo Credit: Angela Marie Henriette

 

That for me is the irritating thing about miracles.

 

They simply don’t always occur.

 

So some pastors teach that miracles aren’t valid today. They ended with the apostles so we really can’t expect them.

Others say if you don’t see them you simply don’t have enough faith. Whip up more faith. See the miracle.

But both of these responses leave people feeling helpless and hopeless. I mean either miracles can’t happen or I’m not super-spiritual enough to see them.  Either way ends in defeat and frustration. [Read more…]

The Trouble with Miracles–Part 1

Number 36 in the series “God Rocks: 101 Amazing Everyday Gifts!” Stories and promises of Jesus that show us the awesome blessings we can experience each day. I hope it encourages you!

 

When I pastored a church there was no end of people with needs. People wanting prayer for physical illnesses, broken relationships, addictions, emotional distress, financial struggles.

With a prayer team I met with those wanting prayer after each service in our chapel. We asked God for miracles sometimes. And frankly we saw them.

 

Photo Credit: Angela Marie Henriette

Photo Credit: Angela Marie Henriette

 

People were healed amazingly. Estranged relationships were restored. Addictions overcome. People found peace who struggled with depression.

But sometimes miracles didn’t happen. And I also saw miracles occur that later unwound.

 

Frankly, it left me bewildered.

 

To this day I don’t have a clear understanding of why God works miraculously sometimes and other times he doesn’t. So if you’re looking for an all conclusive formula I don’t have it. But I think there are some similarities with the miracles Jesus performed. And there are also challenges.

In this story a man named Jairus hunts out Jesus to heal his young daughter who’s dying.

Jairus was a religious leader. One of the few who had anything to do with Jesus. Yet, he’s desperate and believes Jesus can heal his daughter if he’ll only come to his house.

 

But there were challenges ahead.

 

So challenge one, putting aside his pride and potential humiliation he comes to Jesus as he’s teaching. He pushes his way into the center of the crowd where he kneels and asks Jesus to come and heal his daughter. So Jesus goes with him.

Challenge two, on the way Jairus’ servant meets him and says, “Your daughter died a few minutes ago so don’t bother the teacher any longer.”

Jesus responds, “Don’t be afraid. Just believe.”

Challenge three, they entered the house filled with people wailing. Until you’ve seen a funeral in the Middle East you don’t understand wailing.

So in the midst of the screeching Jesus says to Jairus, “Have the people put outside.” And Jairus does.

Challenge four, Jesus went to the room where the little girl lay dead. No fooling dead.

 

Then it says, “Jesus went in and took the girl by the hand, and she stood up!” (Matthew 9:25 NLT)

 

Boom! The miracle happened.

 

Challenge five, those who saw it told everyone they knew even those who ridiculed them. And the news spread like a flood.

Next time I want to draw some conclusions from these challenges.

I don’t know all the answers but I can tell you this.

 

I’ve seen miracles. And they’re always challenging.

 

What are your thoughts about the challenges of miracles?

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Finding Confidence to Weather a Storm

Number 32 in the series “God Rocks: 101 Amazing Everyday Gifts!” Stories and promises of the awesome blessings God gives us each day. I hope it encourages you today!

 

I come from a long line of worriers. My family could take worrying to a new level.

I remember one weekend when our daughter was driving back to college. My mom called her and said, “Let me know when you’re leaving so I’ll know when to start worrying.” And she was serious.

 

Photo Credit: Ken Douglas

Photo Credit: Ken Douglas

 

So I grew up worrying constantly. And I’ve spent a life time learning how not to.

Yet, I’m not alone. A whole lot of people struggle with worry.

In my profession I see people filled with fear at times. Terrified to stay invested yet afraid to miss out.

I’ve watched friends stay in a job they hated because they were afraid to try something else.

Many of us have worried about a suspicious report from the doctor.

 

Yet, fear leaves us paralyzed which causes us to respond irrationally often. And frankly it’s just a horrible way to live.

 

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Freed from Religion to Really Live

Number 31 in the series “God Rocks: 101 Amazing Everyday Gifts!” Stories and promises of the awesome blessings God gives us each day. I hope it encourages you today!

 

I enjoyed the church I grew up in as a kid. I hung out with my buddies, talked with cute girls in our youth group. I mean what’s not to like?

When I was really young I didn’t have to go to worship services which I thought was pretty cool.

But then as I grew older I had to attend the services. Singing hymns I didn’t understand. Not a catchy tune in the bunch. Rituals that seemed mysterious. And sermons delivered with fervor yet somehow detached from my life.

 

Photo Credit: Eric Magnuson

Photo Credit: Eric Magnuson

 

So after high school I left. I set out to find my life apart from religion and I did.

 

Yet, eventually it became a bit messy.

 

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Seeing Everyday Miracles

Number 30 in the series “God Rocks: 101 Amazing Everyday Gifts!” Stories and promises of the awesome blessings God gives us each day. I hope it encourages you today!

 

We all face challenges. They seem to come with way too much regularity. And sometimes they simply seem insurmountable.

 

Photo Credit: Theodore Chen

Photo Credit: Theodore Chen

 

An illness, a financial crisis, a broken relationship.

We wrestle with it and worry about it. And sometimes just can’t fix it.

So how do we respond? And I’ve done all of these.

Sometimes we give up. “I can’t do anything about it. I’m helpless. It’s useless.”

Sometimes we pray super spiritual prayers. “God if you’d like to do something here that would be great. And in case you do here’s kind of what I would like to have happen.” Then we end with, “Not my will but thy will be done.”

Sometimes we pray super miracle working prayers. “Ok God here’s what I want. And this is how and when I’d like it delivered.”

Interestingly, I find the results often pretty similar. Frustration and despair.

 

And sometimes we miss seeing the miracle God wanted to or even did perform.

 

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Surprised by Gifts in the Midst of a Storm

Number 28 in the series “God Rocks: 101 Amazing Everyday Gifts!” Stories and promises of the awesome blessings God gives us each day. I hope it encourages you today!

 

We all get slammed by storms we don’t expect. That’s just real life. And it happens whether you’re a believer or not.

 

Photo Credit: Roy Wangsa

Photo Credit: Roy Wangsa

 

A medical report that punches us.

A marriage blowup and blowout.

A note in our work mail slot telling us we’re no longer needed.

The sudden unexpected death of a loved one.

Storms that slam us and tear us apart.

And how do we usually react?

Often with denial, “This can’t be happening.”

Or with anger, “How could this happen to me?”

Or with guilt. Christians are really good at this one. We tell ourselves and each other, “Well, it must be something you did.” Or, “If you just had more faith.”

But the problem with all of those?

 

None give us the ability to calmly and rationally deal with the storm. And they often leave us worse.

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From Boredom to a Fruitful Life

Number 27 in the series “God Rocks: 101 Amazing Everyday Gifts!” Stories and promises of the awesome blessings God gives us each day. I hope it encourages you today!

 

To be honest I find most churches boring.

I know that seems odd coming from an ex-pastor. Yet, I found seminary and pastor’s conferences to be even worse.

 

Photo Credit: Julie Falk

Photo Credit: Julie Falk

 

I can be a bit irreverent towards institutional religion. Talking about stuff that really helps no one I find detached and wastes time.

All the long faces and serious theological discussions just tees me up to say something off kilter to get a response.

But the real problem I see is so many people attending those churches live bored unproductive lives. Just going through the motions putting up with life until Jesus beams them up.

 

And so many people outside the church look on and with good reason say, “No thanks.”

 

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